Eton has a practice
known as "oiling", which as Anthony Seldon has approvingly noted, “is
learning how to win friends and influence others, and how to clamber over them
to get what you want. It's a mixture of ambition, self-confidence and
bloody-mindedness.” Seldon was writing in
2011 to celebrate the fact that Toby Young had set up the West London Free
School - a flagship for Michael Gove’s educational reforms - and Young “wanted “oiling”
to go viral throughout his school”.
The idea that
young people must be prepared for a life of constant competition lies at the heart
of Gove’s educational philosophy. This week, when introducing a new curriculum,
Gove stressed that it would prepare pupils to compete both in the UK and in the
global race.
However, if we want our children to grow up to be happy adults we
need to teach less competitiveness and more qualities such as compassion. Education should prepare them for life - not just to take their place as workers and consumers in the market.
Gove often
speaks admiringly of the Singapore model of education, which is highly competitive
and pressurised. It has not led to a happy society. In a 2012 opinion poll, "kiasu" was named as the characteristic
that Singaporeans most perceived as existing in their own society. Kiasu means literally “fear of losing”
and is variously translated as “competitive”, “self-centred”, “grasping” and “selfish.” Second, third and fourth characteristics in
Singaporean society, identified in the poll, were “competitive”, “self-centred”
and “material needs”. Fifth was kiasi
– literally “fear of death” – an attitude of being overly timid and afraid,
terrified of risk.
When the Singaporeans
were asked what characteristics they would ideally like to see in Singapore, their first and third preferences related to healthcare.
Their second, fourth and fifth choices were related to compassion - caring for
the elderly, caring for the disadvantaged and compassion itself.
Gove’s vision is likely to produce children who become adults imbued either with the obnoxious
kiasu or the pitiful kiasi. It is a deeply depressing thought that we
are educating our children to become stressed, anxious and unhappy.
Gove could learn
useful lessons from Finland which, like Singapore, is regularly near the top of
world rankings. In Finland, formal education does not even start until children
are seven - whereas Gove has announced proudly that five year olds in the UK will now
be taught fractions as part of his application of “rigour” and “toughness”. For a significant number of children too much pressure too young will prove counter-productive and there is no particular benefit for the others in learning, often by rote, so young.
In Finland
there are no private schools, no long school days like in Singapore and no
exams until 18. A senior official from Finland’s education department has explained, making an explicit comparison with the emphasis on competition in the far inferior US schools system: -
“The important thing (in Finland) is ensuring school is a place where students can discover
who they are and what they can do… we are in education because we believe in cooperation and
sharing. Cooperation is a core starting point for growth."
Our current
political elite demonstrate the danger of an education based on competition and
“oiling”. It is notable how David Cameron lacks the sense of noblesse oblige felt by former Tory leaders
such as Harold Macmillan. He and his colleagues possess a striking lack of
compassion for those in severe hardship in this country. This flows in great part from
their self-serving belief – one pushed by Ayn Rand and then Margaret Thatcher – that
competition in society means those on top deserve to be on top and those at the
bottom deserve to be at the bottom.
Of course, Cameron and the rest do not recognise that competition in our society is grossly rigged in their favour and against the poor. Their lack of compassion is not only immoral but also dangerous - it is creating a fractured and unhappy society.
Of course, Cameron and the rest do not recognise that competition in our society is grossly rigged in their favour and against the poor. Their lack of compassion is not only immoral but also dangerous - it is creating a fractured and unhappy society.
At Eton and
the West London Free School they are teaching the virtues of “oiling” to their
pupils. It would be better to teach our children less competitiveness and more
compassion. We should also seek to
instill a love of learning, an ability to think critically, self-respect and
respect for others. We should teach our children to be decent people with
proper values. We should not be teaching them to be successful rats in a rat
race.